Letting go of negative patterns.

Couples can find letting go is, in some ways, similar to loss.  What happens when every conversation leads to a heated argument from which there seems to be no end.  Words spoken get lost in a familiar pattern of louder voices and being unable to listen or...

Couples and Nature.  At Coupleworks when we are looking for different ways to proceed with a couple, analogies can be very helpful.  I find ‘nature and gardening’ can offer insightful clues about human interaction and social intercourse. Couples sometimes...

A link

Coupleworks sometimes find it useful to link everyday news items to real experiences of one of our couples.  A news item which illustrates this was reported recently:- The North Circular is not a motorway….it is a main road running through both private dwellings...

Memory

It is now six weeks since the moving and emotional D-Day landing anniversary which made people in Europe and the wider world stand still and marvel about the courage…

Autumn

Autumn has early memories for all of us who live in countries with seasons and brings many feelings as it arrives. It can bring a sense of wellbeing and comfort and also melancholy and depression. This disparity highlights how hard a couple needs to work together with...