Couple Conversation and Healthy Communication

A review of ‘Eight Dates – Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love’ (John & Julie Gottman) Falling in love can bring an intoxicating feeling that we are seen as we are, and that we are accepted as we are, and that we are perceived to be special. We...

Depression and the Couple Relationship

Like many I was impressed with the way in which Prince Harry talked so honestly about the struggles he has had since his mother died and how he came close to a complete breakdown on a number of occasions. Last week’s Mental Health Awareness Week has also made more...

Technology and Humans.

For many years I have been struck by the similarities between technical frustrations and difficulties which can arise in a couple. If we look at the comparison of a computer’s hard drive and a human’s unconscious, we can see an example:  If you put the wrong software...